Be My Reality Check Girl!

Good morning, ladies and gents!

I just want to get this off my chest.. :)

If you find something that I'm doing wrong, a lipstick, hair color or outfit that doesn't look good on me, I'd like you to tell me...

Yes! I would want to know. As much as I claim to be a beauty maven, I am not "all-knowing". I make mistakes... and quite frankly, i don't want to walk around with a bad beauty or fashion decish hanging on my shoulders or wearing "I'm provoking Fashion Pulis" sign around my neck.

You guys are very responsive and supportive here on my blog and when you tell me I make pretty looks that inspires you, it makes my heart grow bigger and you inspire me in return to do good and continuously hone my skills.

But I also appreciate readers who tells me when something doesn't exactly work for me or that they prefer a certain look over another. A girl mentioned onces that she prefers neat looking brows and I realized it's been awhile since I had mine groomed. Thanks for the reminder! No insulting word said but that was a good way of sharing her thoughts.. after all, brows do often make or break a makeup look.

There's this blogger syndrome I recently noticed (and have experienced myself) that when people keep on commenting you're pretty, you think you're really good at what you do and you think you're incapable of making a mistake. I spoke to a friend yesterday and I told her that I needed her to be my "reality check girl". One who can tell me if I'm really screwing up big time... fashion, beauty or life wise.

Sometimes, I get all wrapped up in my blog and forget that I'm just a regular person! Yes! That happens! And checking back on my photos... oh boy did I make some serious mistakes. Just like any other girl out there. I am special in my own way but we do all screw up sometimes, right?

Let's be each other's "reality check girl". Let's provide insightful thoughts to each other (not insulting and demeaning and mean ones) to each other. I believe, this world will be a better place for it! :)

I promise I will not to be defensive! :) #lol

Love you guys so much! Thanks for supporting me! :)

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  1. Hi Ms. Shen :) I love the idea of being each other's reality check girl. I like the honesty that you'd ask us, your followers/readers about what we think of your beauty/fashion posts. And that means a lot to us. So far, I love what you're doing. They really are fab. I hope I could have that confidence too. Hee


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